Hi Everyone,
This is my first post and I would like to begin by praising everyone for their courage and candor about incontinence. I'm a 42--soon to be 43-year-old male--who has been been incontinent and worn diapers 24/7 all my life. FYI, I've either worn Depend, Attends, Molicares or First Quality and rubber pants ever since I was 15 when I could no longer fit into the Pampers I was reared in.
At any rate, because of my situation I still feel very babyish--even though I'm not an ABY at all--because of my situation and still have serious emotional issues around having to wear diapers all the time.
An even bigger frustration that I feel--especially on some of these boards--are the diaper lovers and adult babies out there who wear because they like to and not because they need them. After all, it's one thing to be able to wet when you want to like these people do--and I'm not dismissing them at all--but it's something else entirely when you have to wear all the time, especially in public and have no control.
As such, I'd love to e-mail and perhaps chat with some of you who are experiecing similar issues around your diapers. BYW, I live in New York City and will respond to all posts. Hope to hear from you guys. Also e-mail me directly at w.tripp@att.net