Depend pull up pants

[David]

I used a normal Tena nappy with side tapes instead of pull up pants today and I heve to say it was much better mainly because you can pull the tapes just enough to make it fit neatly around you it's just a pity they don't have 3 tapes and they are more convinent to change without having to remove your clothes I wear plastic pants over pull ups but i don't think I needed them with the nappy I like to use the plastic pants in bed because I don't know how it is for you but I find that when your in bed weather your in a nappy or pull up pants the direction you leak depends on which way your lying and which way your penis is pointing so the plastic pants are a must for me in bed are the plastic pants you have good quality mine are called Henleys Medical with stitched sides which after a while tear apart but that's all that's available here.

[RichardJ]

Hi David:
I use Tranquility Premium Overnight. They have kind of a pocket built in so the penis stays centrally located most
of the time. However when I have tossed and turned a lot at night, they have leaked when I got up in the morning.
I know if I drink more coffee or caffeine than normal on a given day I had better put the plastic pants on over the pullups.
What I don't like about the diapers with the side tabs is they can get heavy with pee and fall down as I head to the restroom.

[David]

Can you manage to change yourself or do you need someone to help you I like the sound of the nappies you use with the pocket but I have never come across them here can I ask you seen as you have been incontinent since an early age have you met up with any nice ladies and what kind of reaction did you get from them about your incontinence were they understanding or did they run a mile when they found out I'd say a lot of people just suffer in silence with incontinence and don't even go to the doctor and become very lonely I can only imagine how difficult it must be for anyone that's double incontinent.

[RichardJ]

I can change myself. If I'm just using pads on a particular day, I'll change the pad every three hours or so.
It's easier to change pads because I don't have to remove anything.
I have been married twice.
Both times they were understanding of my incontinence.
My first marriage lasted 5 years. We just didn't get along all the time. Incontinence didn't matter.
My second and present marriage has lasted 35 years.

[David]

It's great to be independant and be able to do things fo yourself and that you have met such understanding ladies I'd say they are few and far between I suppose incontinence can become just part of normal life for a lot of people but from me and everyone else Reading these posts who maybe only starting to come to terms with it I thank you for sharing your experiences with us and for been so honest and here's hoping others may join in the chat.