by Alyssa » Tue Apr 17, 2012 12:57 pm
My Dad said that when the T.V. came out everyone was worried about people losing face to face interaction and social skills as well. I don't know that it's so much the devices but the lack of supervision and restrictions with all these new devices. Like we don't allow our kids to use any devices at the dinner table or at any restaurants or when we have company over. We limit their time to 1 hour a day of any rich media, so T.V., video games, anything. But it's so hard when other people let their kids play while eating, in the car driving, at church, etc, etc.
Our kids won't be allowed a phone or texting until their 13 and hopefully by that age they will already have developed good spelling skills. However, our principal at our school says 2/3 of all the kids have and bring cell phones to school and some of those are kindergartners. She also says that it's parents that break the rules about letting their kids have the phones in the classrooms as oppposed to following protocol and dropping them off at the office.
That said, we know so many families right now that are working three and four jobs between the two parents and they are exhausted and in pure survival mode. And so many families these days have moved away from their hometowns to pursue better jobs and careers that often families are left with no support network at all. I feel blessed every day that I am able to only work part time and that my parents are able to help when needed. The combination of the effects of our global economy and everyone moving away from their hometowns mixed with state of our national economy requiring so many families to work extra jobs and hours is not a good thing for our children.